Evangelical Pastor says “Vote Yes”


Hillsong Conference Sydney 2009


The marriage equality debate is underway and I find that the no case is being most zealously prosecuted by the evangelical wing of the church. This also happens to be the part of the church I belong to. Sometimes the ways of this group of believers thrills me, sometimes inspires me, sometimes infuriates me and and sometimes disappoints me (and I no doubt do the same to some of my evangelical colleagues) . On the question of marriage equality I find myself frustrated and disappointed. I advocate for a yes vote, when most of my evangelical colleagues are saying no. I’ve tried to listen carefully and respectfully to the arguments, but remain convinced that evangelicals will come out on the wrong side of history on this one. In this rather lengthy post I lay out my reasoning.

The underlying issue

Evangelicals and other conservative Christian groups are prosecuting the no case with an energy that exceeds anything else in recent memory. We have taken our stand on refugees, homelessness and poverty, but the emotional energy being thrown into opposing marriage equality seems to be at another level of intensity. I don’t mean to suggest that conservatives have neglected those issues. I have stood shoulder to shoulder with my conservative brothers and sisters protesting aid cuts and advocating for refugees.

Nor do I think the all too hastily applied epithet of “homophobia” explains the opposition of my fellow evangelicals. My Facebook and blog threads certainly suggest that there are some in our faith communities who are filled with fear and hatred of LGBTIQ people, but the church leaders I know who are opposed to marriage equality are people for whom I have respect, who are generous and gracious and who genuinely want to extend love to their LGBTIQ neighbours.

What I do sense is a concern at the ways our society is becoming increasingly liberal. It is the nature of conservatism to make changes slowly and incrementally and to many of my evangelical friends it seems we are rushing into changes to our understanding of sexuality and our social institution of marriage without being attentive to the possible negative outcomes. Yet I find the arguments they proffer rather brittle.

The nature of marriage

According to proponents of the no case, marriage is more than a relationship between two individuals; it is a relationship that provides the context within which children are born and raised. As such, they argue that it depends upon the biological complementarity of husband and wife. To recognise same-sex marriages would fundamentally alter the meaning of marriage. The Sydney Anglican booklet “What God Has Joined Together” claimed that “In order for same-sex couples to share in marriage, the definition must be changed to remove “founding a family” from the essence of marriage and focus the definition on the rights of a couple.”

The Marriage Act defines marriage as “the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life”. In neither the act nor the guidelines for celebrants provided by the Attorney General’s Department is there any reference to family formation. Likewise, when marriages are celebrated the focus is one the couple and not on family formation. The majority of weddings performed in Australia are now conducted by civil celebrants. I did a Google search for “marriage celebrants sample ceremony” and looked at the first five results. Not one ceremony described a marriage with reference to children. Rather the focus was exclusively upon the relationship shared between the couple.

It is somewhat ironic that the definition of marriage in Australian law and popular expression is precisely that which the opponents of marriage equality deem so dangerous! It is not the proponents of marriage equality who are asking to change the definition of marriage. The radical redefining of marriage is in fact being proposed by the opponents of marriage equality.

Removing gender from marriage & schools?

The coalition for marriage website suggests that marriage equality will remove gender from marriage, and then invokes the Orwellian spectre of our children being taught that there is no such thing as gender. I find this argument baffling. A marriage between two men or two women will not eliminate gender. It will be a marriage between two people of the same gender.

The suggestion marriage equality will lead to the removal of gender from our schools is likewise problematic.The proposed changes to marriage and school sex education are both outworkings of a shift in the understanding of sexuality that is occurring in our society, so to suggest marriage equality will lead to our kids being taught crazy gender ideas is misleading. As is the notion that anyone is proposing the elimination of gender. The call to recognise that some human beings are transgender and others experience gender in a fluid way is not to argue for no gender, but for an expanded concept of gender that ceases excluding and marginalising those who don’t fit a binary model.

Impacts on children

Opponents of marriage equality frequently argue that same-sex marriages will have detrimental outcomes for children. They point to the right of children to know their biological parents and the need for children to have positive male and female role models.

The well-being of children should always be an issue of concern, but it is not an argument that pertains to same-sex marriage. To raise it here makes the assumption that marriage confers the right to have children. Indeed, the Sydney Anglican booklet “What God Has Joined Together” strongly implies this when it says that

“while most same-sex couples aren’t seeking marriage so that they can found a family, there will be some same-sex couples who’ll want children if we make the change” and that “Recognising same-sex relationships as ‘marriage’ legitimates the right of all same-sex couples to equal access to assisted reproductive technology.”

The reality is that more than one third of Australian children are born out of wedlock, that lesbian and gay couples already have access to assisted reproductive technology and that lesbian and gay couples already have children and raise families. The 2016 census counted 46,800 same-sex couples across Australia, split almost evenly between female same-sex couples (49%) and male (51%). One quarter of female same-sex couples and 4.5% of male same-sex couples had children.

Having said this, it is worthwhile noting that the overwhelming consensus of peer-reviewed studies into the welfare and well-being of children in same-sex headed households shows that children in those households do as well as children who grow up in other household types. A literature review conducted by the Australian Psychology Association in 2007 found that

“the family studies literature indicates that it is family processes (such as the quality of parenting and relationships within the family) that contribute to determining children’s well- being and ‘outcomes’, rather than family structures, per se, such as the number, gender, sexuality and co-habitation status of parents. The research indicates that parenting practices and children’s outcomes in families parented by lesbian and gay parents are likely to be at least as favourable as those in families of heterosexual parents, despite the reality that considerable legal discrimination and inequity remain significant challenges for these families.”

This conclusion was confirmed by a 2013 literature review by the Australian Institute of family studies.

Impacts on Freedom of Religion Overstated

Opponents of marriage equality argue that it will diminish religious freedoms. Claims have been made that Christian ministers will be at risk of prosecution if they articulate the opinion that same-sex partnerships are outside the will of God; conservative religious schools may be forced to teach that homosexual partnerships are equal to heterosexual; that Christian bakers will be forced to bake cakes for gay weddings.

These claims are reinforced by pointing to the experiences of countries that have legalised same-sex marriage. Unfortunately, there is a lot of unwarranted alarm occurring here.

In 2015 the Australian Catholic Bishops conference released a booklet entitled “Don’t Mess with Marriage”. The booklet cited a number of examples of attacks upon freedom of religion. The first example stated that

“The City of Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, ordered Christian ministers to perform same-sex weddings under pain of 180 days’ imprisonment for each day the ceremony is not performed and fines of $1000 per day”.

This is a complete misrepresentation of what occurred. The ministers in question were a couple who ran a wedding chapel called “The Hitching Post” in which they advertised that they performed Christian ceremonies, civil ceremonies, and ceremonies for other religious traditions. When the city council passed an ordinance prohibiting discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation it specifically exempted “Religious corporations, associations, educational institutions, or societies.” (see http://opencda.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/LGBT-Ordinance.pdf ) At no point did the city council threaten or initiate legal action, but rather they recognised “The Hitching Post” as an exempt religious organisation.

It appears that the owners of The Hitching Post misread the ordinance, believed they would not be exempt because they were a business, made noise about it that received national media coverage, and then sued the council for losses they experienced as a result of adverse publicity.

The second example that Don’t Mess With Marriage cites is that

“Clergy in Holland, France, Spain, the US and Australia have been threatened with prosecution for ‘hate speech’ for upholding their faith tradition’s position on marriage; the City of Houston, Texas, has even subpoenaed pastors, compelling them to submit sermons to legal scrutiny when discussing sexuality.”

I am not sure what specific instances the bishops had mind for Holland, France, Spain, the US and Australia, but the one specific example cited is again a misrepresentation. In 2004 the city of Houston passed a law banning businesses from discriminating on grounds of sexual orientation, gender identity, race, colour ethnicity, religion, disability, age, etc. Opponents of the ordinance gathered 50,000 signatures to demand a repeal motion. The city rejected their petition on the technical grounds that the signatures were not provided in the correct form, which led opponents to launch a suit against the city.

As part of the case, the city issued subpoenas for “all speeches, presentations, or sermons related to HERO, the Petition, Mayor Annise Parker, homosexuality, or gender identity prepared by, delivered by, revised by or approved by you [i.e. those who were suing the city] or in your possession”.

The city of Houston did not demand pastors submit their sermons on sexuality for scrutiny. Rather pastors who were part of a group that brought a suit against the city in which the legality of the signatures they had gathered was under dispute were asked to submit documents, including sermons, that would be pertinent in discerning whether proper processes were followed.

Overblown and Exaggerated

To be quite honest, I am finding that all too often when I look into the specifics of claims that freedom of religion is being violated the arguments appear overblown and exaggerated. In Australia, as in most western societies, antidiscrimination laws already prohibit discrimination against people on the grounds of their sexual orientation and gender identity. It is already illegal to incite hatred and violence against gay people; it is already illegal for businesses to discriminate in the provision of services; and it is already illegal to deny people employment on the grounds of their sexual orientation or relationship status.

Religious bodies, including churches, welfare agencies, aged care services and religious schools, however, are usually exempt from parts of the antidiscrimination legislation. Businesses are not. If a gay couple wanted to hold a celebration marking their relationship, their anniversary, or the arrival of a child, it is already a violation of the antidiscrimination legislation for a bakery to refuse to bake the cake or for a caterer to provide them with catering on the grounds that they are homosexual.

Having said this, I expect that the next decade or two will see an increase in challenges to the exemptions to anti-discrimination law that apply to churches, Christian welfare services and Christian schools. This will be difficult and may well place new restrictions on religious freedom. These challenges will not however arise because of marriage equality, but due to shifting perceptions in the Australian community of what is acceptable treatment of human beings.

What’s really going on?

From my vantage point, it looks like evangelicals are publicly playing out our struggle to find our place in a post-Christendom Australia. Ever since the Australian constitution was passed (1901) Australia has officially been a secular State, but from the time of the British invasion until the mid twentieth century Christianity had a substantial role in Australia’s public life. It was widely accepted that Australia was a “Christian” nation that would pass “Christian” laws. This started breaking down in the 1950s and has accelerated to the point that Australia self identifies as a multi-faith, multi-values society united by a common commitment to cherish and respect each other’s freedom. Democracy protects people from the tyranny of the state, while liberalism protects people from the tyranny of the majority.

We no longer look to the state to impose a uniform morality nor a uniform religion. Rather, responsibility for life choices devolves to the individual. Citizens are granted the freedom to live the lives they value and the responsibility to do so in ways that don’t impinge upon the freedom of others. The State is responsible to create the environment in which this can occur and to defend the freedoms of all citizens. This means I should expect to live in a community in which people hold values and construct lifestyles that are very different to mine. The problem for Christians and churches is that in terms of faith as a lived reality, we now find ourselves a minority, and we’re not sure how to inhabit that space. What do we do when the state proposes laws that we feel are at odds with our faith?

To my mind we do well remember the failure of the Christendom project. Christendom laid bare the painful truth that Christ alone has the character and wisdom necessary to bring together the moral authority of God and the coercive power of the State. When we mortals try to do this we inevitably end up with something resembling the Taliban’s Afghanistan, Calvin’s Geneva or Cromwell’s England. Rather than imbuing the State with the way of Jesus, Christendom saw the church joining the ranks of history’s oppressive powers. It was the Church that served as the priestly guarantor of divine blessing on European states as they colonised Africa, Asia, the Americas and the Pacific, stealing land and murdering those who resisted.

We celebrate heroes such as William Wilberforce, but forget that it was a church-backed state that presided over the transatlantic slave trade and then resisted its dismantling; that the majority of evangelicals in the United States argued against the abolition of slavery and saw the Christian abolitionists as subverting the word of God; that it was not the church, but the feminist movement, that demanded an end to the oppression of women and elevated their status.

Our opposition to LGBTIQ freedoms has contributed to the marginalisation, hurt and oppression of LGBTIQ people, and it continues to do so. LGBTIQ Australians experience higher rates of depression, suicide, and mental illness than the wider Australian population. These are classic symptoms of marginalisation, abuse and oppression. This is why I believe every Christian should support marriage equality. The issue is not whether I believe same-sex relationships to be within the will of God. The issue is that it is not up to the church nor the state to make that decision for others, and that when we do so we contribute to a culture that doesn’t embody love but embodies hurt.

Scott J Higgins is a former Pastor of Edgeworth Baptist Church, with a degree in theology from Moore Theological College, Sydney; a Masters in Theology through Morling Theological College, Sydney; and a Graduate Certificate in Social Change and Development from Newcastle University, Newcastle Australia. This post first appeared on his blog and is republished here with permission.

About the author

I live in Newcastle, NSW, Australia, with my wife Sandy and our three children and work as a consultant, educator and writer, with a particular focus upon social justice and ethics from a Christian faith-based perspective. I have had a lifelong passion to follow Jesus and attempt to do so in a thoughtful way. I am committed to engaging my world, culture, church, relationships, values, lifestyle and beliefs as a follower of Jesus. I am continually learning what this means and find the journey both thrilling and challenging. I worked for Baptist World Aid Australia for 10 years. Prior to this I served as Pastor of Edgeworth Baptist Church, which meant being involved in planting and growing the church for eleven years, and before that served as youth pastor at Caringbah Baptist Church, which also happened to be the church I grew up in. I gained my undergraduate degree in theology from Moore Theological College, Sydney; my Masters in Theology through Morling Theological College, Sydney; and a Graduate Certificate in Social Change and Development from Newcastle University, Newcastle Australia. I enjoy reading, thinking critically about life and faith, boating (both powerboats and sail) and hanging out with my family and friends.